Anal Adventures

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Hi everyone,

My wife and I have been married 30 years. I’m M(49), her F(48). She has always had a high libido, but as she has aged and gotten more comfortable with her desires and started hormone therapy she is absolutely insatiable. She has always been very submissive sexually, but as we began to explore the Dom/sub dynamic more in depth, we found that she really gets off on the idea that I have complete and total control of her body, and more importantly her orgasms. Lucky for her that the one thing that turns me on more than anything is getting her off. She has always submitted to my sexual will, and in 30 years has never hesitated to do exactly what she’s told and has never, not even one time in 30 years said “no” when told to perform. In our continued effort to explore our desires, I have began only allowing her to get off anally. No vaginal or clitoral stimulation at all. I won’t even allow her to touch it herself, and since she’s a good girl, she always does as she’s told. The catch is, that as long as she is only to be used anally, in order to keep that throbbing and aching in her clit to drive her absolutely crazy, that she can ask, at any time, to be taken back and I will bend her over the bed, eat her ass, then finger it deep and hard until she has cum dripping out of her pussy, then I’ll put a plug in and send her on her way. We have found that the denial of ANY stimulation other than anal has made her feel so incredibly dirty (dirty in a good way :smirking_face:) that it leaves her poor little clit swollen, achy and throbbing, and so incredibly sensitive. In fact, yesterday, her clit got so swollen that she texted me to tell me that she could feel her clit sticking out past her lips and her panties rubbing on it was making her crazy. Here’s the big catch though. Normally, if she was really turned on, and her pussy gets used, she will cum hard and soon after, the swelling and sensitivity subsides and her sexual appetite is fully satiated. The demons go with the orgasm, so to speak. But being completely denied any vaginal/clitoral use or even touch, and only getting off anally that she gets off much harder, but the swelling and throbbing in her poor little clit doesn’t subside, it only intensifies. Instead of getting her ass used and getting the orgasmic relief, she’s left even more desperate to be used. After about a month now of total clitoral/vaginal denial, she is to the point of begging to be taken back and fingered in her ass several times a day. Yesterday in fact, I took her back and got her off 5 times throughout the day and by the end of the day the throbbing in her swollen little clit was so bad that I would catch her stopping and having random orgasms with no touch at all. The mental aspect of knowing that the hard orgasm you desperately need will just make that little clit ache even more drives her absolutely insane. Yesterday evening I caught in the hallway bracing her hand against the wall with her legs shaking and cum dripping down the inside of her thighs. After getting fingered in the ass to orgasm for the fifth or sixth time yesterday her clit was so swollen and sensitive that her wet lips rubbing back and forth on it made her cum so hard that she was dripping. The amazing thing about it, it only made the throbbing and aching worse. The harder it aches, the more desperate she is to cum, then when she gets that deep, hard anal penetration the harder it makes her cum, the harder she gets off being used anal only, the harder her little clit throbs, the harder her little clit throbs the more desperate she is to cum. It’s a viscous little cycle we have going on. Anal use is making her level of desire utterly insatiable and knowing that no matter how badly she may want it, she’ll be given no relief. She’s to the point where she’s so absolutely insatiable now that she’s begging me to continue to deny her any clitoral/vaginal use indefinitely. She absolutely gets off feeling like such a dirty little girl knowing that no matter how tender her ass may get, that’s the only way I’ll make her cum. It’s so tender now that simply licking it will make her cum.

I don’t know how long she’ll be able to stand it before she’s disobedient and finally gives herself some relief, but I’m having a blast figuring it out :winking_face_with_tongue:!!!

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It feels like I’ve read some kind of porn story. :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes::grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

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This one is 100% true. I think that’s what has made it so much fun. Knowing that my wife is secretly such a freak while everyone else sees her so ladylike is a huge turn on. They’re thinking she’s a prude and they have no idea that she has a butt plug in and has to keep stopping while she walks through the store so she doesn’t have a full on orgasm in front of everyone. It’s quite a lot of fun…

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Hello and welcome to the forum. I’ve just confirmed that you’re a human. Now you can use the complete forum.

Nice story btw, nothing beats only using your wife’s asshole and mouth.

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Initially I brought the idea up as an experiment of sorts. My hypothesis was that she got more turned on, and not only were the orgasms more intense, but also more frequent. Therefore, my conclusion was that my sweet, shy, prim & proper lady of a wife prefers getting fucked in the ass more than her pussy. Of course her shyness wouldn’t allow her to openly admit it, so the experiment to prove my case was set in motion.

I always start hours in advance to bring her mind into the gutter with me. Once I’ve got her mind thinking about the dirtiest things and feeling a little dirty herself, then we move to bringing her physical self into the building aura of arousal that will slowly consume and encompass her mind and body. If the setting is right, and the proper time and attention has been given to build her arousal she will literally start to cum again and again where the next orgasm starts in the tail of the last. Last night, she was still having orgasms 30 minutes after we were finished. That’s what turns me on the most is knowing how aroused she is by being used and controlled. We have gone for short periods of AO before, think a week to maybe a month, and she would always talk apprehensively about not getting any vaginal/clitoral touch of any kind. The thought of not getting her pussy eaten (which I absolutely love to do, so AO is a sacrifice on my end as well), and just didn’t know if she could stand it. My response was to tell her that her words may be too shy to offer the truth, her body has no such issue. You can say you’re not into it, but a dripping wet pussy says otherwise. I made the claim that she was actually so turned on and aroused by being made to go AO, but that deep down she wants me to continue to “force” it on her. Last night her arousal finally got so intense that she begged me to continue to use her anally and deny her anything else. She admitted that she was wildly turned on by being “forced” (hard to force the willing) to only be allowed pleasure anally.

It seems my experiment was a stunning success. Not only was my hypothesis proven true that she preferred the orgasms of anal use to vaginal use, and more than that, the dirty feeling she got knowing that she would be denied clitoral/vaginal touch of any kind indefinitely. That feeling of knowing what a dirty girl she is drives her absolutely wild. She has already come to tell me that she’s desperate, and asking me to please take her back and make her cum three times this morning. All three times she was bent over and licked, fingered, and fuck deep in her ass with a dildo until she had cum running down her thighs. It’s not quite noon yet :smiling_face_with_sunglasses::smirking_face:. The fact that those orgasms only made the throbbing and aching worse just makes it all the more fun. The last time she asked me to get her off I rewarded her by letting her lay on her back with her legs spread wide and I allowed her to pull her pussy lips apart and hold them open while I ate her ass. Having her swollen clit exposed while her ass got eaten made her feel so dirty. Mind you, she grew up very religious and had never masturbated, never put a finger, or anything else for that matter into her pussy. For her to be so aroused that she’ll hold her pussy lips apart while I eat her ass tells me that she was absolutely desperate to get off. I could not only see how puffy that poor little clit was, but I could also see how absolutely engorged it was to the point that when she would cum you could watch her clit quiver as she came. I’m having a great time with it. :joy:

PS, just got another text, “I was just thinking about it, and now my panties are completely soaked. Would you please come put the plug in and make me cum again?” :smirking_face::thinking:

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Welcome to the forum, @BigBdWlf76!
It’s great to have people who enjoy posting a lot, but could I ask you to add a few more paragraphs to your texts, when you’re posting longer ones in the future? It makes texts a lot easier to read, thank you!

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I have to back up Backdoorlover here the ultimate is ATM.
Welcome to the forum :blush:

Cate is having HRT, but not the “standard” medical approach to the subject. She doesn’t like the cancer stories that she has read on HRT. She is going through plenty of tests and staying away from the cancer stuff. She has only just started HRT. It would be good to see her libido go through the roof as your wife has shown.

Good luck with everything in your new anal adventures :+1:

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Welcome to the group. Our stories are quite similar. I’m 69 and my wife is 67 and our anal only life started 6+ years ago. We’ve been married for 43 years and our anal journey occurred late in our relationship.

My wife enjoyed a finger or small toy in her ass during foreplay and vaginal penetration, but swore my cock would never penetrate her ass despite numerous attempts over the years.

It was also hormone replacement therapy that boosted her libido. Birth control meds muted her libido for most of our relationship. She was, and still is, unable to orgasm during vaginal penetration, but has multiple anal orgasms every time. At first, she was a prolific gusher during anal penetration but that doesn’t happen as much anymore. I believe she’s not getting as much testosterone with her current HRT as she did for the first three years (she changed providers when we moved).

Like you, my pleasure is solely derived from the pleasure she experiences during anal play and penetration. The harder her anal orgasm, the more powerful mine will be. Anal play and sex is a form of sexual art. It requires knowledge, skill, trust, and connection. She has regrets she wasn’t more open minded to anal earlier in our relationship. For me, it’s been a wonderful discovery later in life.

Welcome to the group. We look forward to your participation.

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Send Cate our love and hope she’s doing ok x

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If it is any help the increased risk of cancer with HRT has been over reported in so far as quoting 17-37% increased risks, depending on exactly what the HRT is (there are various combinations of estrogen, progesterone and testosterone), without putting it in context correctly. The population risk is 30 in 10,000 for breast cancer and the 37% increase is to 38 in 10,000. So basically it is an increase from 0.03% to 0.038% for estrogen only, the rates are lower for combined therapies. So while it sounds like a big increase, that’s on a very low rate to begin with. I hope that helps.

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Nothing in life is risk free. For us, this was a risk/benefit calculation. The benefits of hormone replacement therapy (I’m on it too) far outweighed the risks. Some of the many benefits include:

Increased energy
Better sleep
Increased libido
Build or maintain muscle mass
Maintain bone density
Improved skin health
Improved mood

We enjoy our anal sex life so much, there’s no way either of us are willing to forego the benefits of HRT. I’d also argue those on HRT that developed cancer may not have been living a healthy lifestyle in terms of diet, exercise, smoking, excessive drinking, etc.

My wife and I both encourage others to consider HRT, particularly as you age.

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Do you know if they include testosterone in Cate’s hormone therapy? We learned my wife had virtually no testosterone when she started her HRT. It’s testosterone that can help boost a woman’s libido. I remember you explaining how difficult it is to obtain testosterone down under.

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Thank you Abby. Cate was touched by your well wishes :blush: She also said thank you.

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Thanks Colt. With the test results Cate was showing high testosterone levels. Her hormones only in the last 3 months have been out of whack. She is on prescription to reduce testosterone lol. Each female is different I guess.

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Thanks for the information, appreciate it.

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First I’ve heard of testosterone levels being too high in women. Glad it can be controlled. It’s absolutely amazing how many things are linked to ED and libido.

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Cate all of a sudden started getting facial hair growth, that’s never happened before. A couple of days ago she showed me a hair coming through one of her arms that was considerably thicker than what she is used to. All we can do support our Goddesses, stand in the gap, for when their hormones take their turn to kick in, in whatever shape it takes form.

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It made a huge difference for my wife. It’s the reason I’m in this group. I wanted to know if there were others like us who discovered this pleasure later in life. One of the newer members and his wife experienced something similar. My wife also noticed the hair as well.

200,000 years ago when men and women had anal sex, no one cared about the hair on the woman’s back!

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:oncoming_fist: I like that. I like how you think Colt. It’s the ever expanding life in us, seeking more. Just like energy, it is never destroyed. Always for fuller expansion.

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Man your srory is stunning !

How is it going since then ?

Anal is Art