So I was strictly playing with my ass for like 4 months and it’s been amazing so far.
I discovered that I can cum from anal only when I am riding my favorite toy. Once I am warmed up, it only tikes like a minute or so until I cum.
It does not feel like a typical orgasm from normal stimulation. It is more like a constant and very intense flow and it is so addictive. I can cum from it like 10 times and do not have enough. It’s just so good, I could continue forever.
However, at some point I decide that it should be over and that’s it.
Do some of you feel the same?
Hi Dave,
There don’t seem to be many men on this forum who “pleasure themselves” anally – at least, if there are, many of them may not have not spoken about it.
However, I am such a man. My wife understands and sometimes I think she likes that it gives her a break. 
) For the record, I am extremely attracted to women and don’t feel any attraction to men. However, seeing porn in which a man with a really large penis is sliding into a woman’s ass is a big turn-on.
I sure wish I could “cum from it like 10 times and do not have enough” as you do.
For me, cumming once takes a while; perhaps because I have been at it for so many decades?? (I would have assumed that the more years one does it, the faster the cumming, but my experience is the opposite.)
Very deep (and thick/big) [you can see my Intro and early posts if you wish] is always better for me and often I am working up to cumming for 15-20 minutes -- but I am not in any hurry. I enjoy the pure feelings of the insertion and stretching, perhaps more than the actual orgasm. Then I need at least a few minutes of a break before the possibility of cumming again. However, cumming more than twice in a session is very unusual for me. Then, continuing to play, with even bigger / deeper / multiple toys could go on for hours and hours if I did not have other responsibilities. I (and my ass) never get tired of it.
If you have any “tricks” for cumming so many times, I invite you to share them.
I never even think about being penetrated.
To me anal is 100% about me penetrating a woman’s asshole. My wife tried playing with my asshole while sucking my cock, but it distracted me from the blowjob and I didn’t like it. Ik want to feel my cock being sucked, not my asshole being fingered. 
I’m old school and always aspire to follow the golden rule, “it is better to give than to receive” and I’m a very generous anal “giver”. I make sure she’s never wanting or needing more.
Every now and then during foreplay, she uses a finger to stimulate my ass and I find it pleasurable. Ironically, when she does this it drives me to want to penetrate her ass.
In reality, we engage in intense foreplay with me teasing and pleasuring her in every way imaginable. When she’s had enough, and never enough to orgasm, it’s my turn and I TAKE her ass with authority. I guess I should call that giving and taking. When I’m done giving, I take her exactly the way I want.
The dynamic works for us.
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My wife also enjoys the stretch. She doesn’t gush like she used to when we started anal, but she does gush when I stretch her with a larger plug or toy, and occasionally with my cock in her ass. She knows and understands her ass, and stretching is a welcome challenge for her. She’s at her limit with a 2” diameter plug or dildo.
Colt, is that 2” on the thickest part or the thinest part ?
2” diameter on the thickest part or the “bulb” of the plug.
I’m no gooner girl, but sometimes when my roommate stays at her boyfriend’s I’ll have a loooong session that only ends because I have to go to the dining hall for dinner. But I’m still chasing this mythical anal orgasm.
Aah my wife can take that too.
The first time I went to a sexshop to buy a set of trainer plugs, they were like 1,2”, 1,6” and 2” and she opened the box, pointed at the 2” and said “I can take that one”. So we skipped the first, used the second one time and from went for the third next.
But her fav plug is a pink one, only about 1,2” thick at the thickest, and very comfy for all evening wear after work. Or during work. Or to go out to diner. That plug never sits wrong for her.
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