I used to have a twitter account where I would lurk and find anal-obsessed girls, so I can observe the increasing amount of women that declare themselves as anal-obsessed/anal only, coming from an anal only woman. I notice that a lot of anal-obsessed women I stumble up are mostly goth. I feel like a sore thumb sticking out because I’m a short height/petite woman with a cute, adorable and childlike face and I have a golden retriever girlfriend energy, and have a bubbly, energetic and lively persona like a sunshine. And I happen to be an anal only freak behind closed doors.
Aesthetics, appearances, body types, zodiac, races, etc does not matter. What’s important is that anal only is embraced by like-minded people without any restrains and obstacles, heavenly, pleasurable, more intimate and passionate, and sensual.
I’m anal obsessed for sure and definitely not goth. I’m petite, pretty bookish, and introverted (not in the sense that I can’t socialize, but that it drains my batteries and I have to recover afterwards.) In my mind, my style is Melissa Benoist in Supergirl, though she wears it much better than I do. The ideal night for me would be crosswords and puzzles with my partner, followed by a good assfucking!
I think there are a lot of verity in the anal only community. But the goth type may be more comfortable sharing their desires. Other girls may be a little more shy about coming forward and admitting their love for anal. At least that’s my theory.
I’m the bratty and needy type, not shying away from my desire and obsession with anal only. I fit the definition of the woman you can take home to your parents, behind closed door, she’s an anal freak.
I think there’s no way in connecting a type of woman to her prefference for anal sex.
My wife seemed very vanilla to me when I got to know her. She’s a mother of 4, Before she was with me, she was a typical housewife. Never really dressed sexy, She wore plain clothes. No one would even have looked at her and conclude she loves it up the ass. But even with her ex she had anal regulary for over a decade.
Nowadays, because of my supportive behavior, she dresses sexy a lot. She wears thongbikinis at home at our pool, and on vacation she goes topless in thong. But still I think people will never look at her and suspect she’s an anal enthusiast who has had an anal only relationship for over 4 years now.
And that is exactly why I love it even more that she wants to be anal only without any doubt.
In my personal experience, there’s no real pattern. Some of the women I had sex with in my life enjoyed anal, some didn’t. Some changed their minds and wanted to try it after a while, though.
I don’t think I ever met (at least knowingly) a woman who was anal only, sadly
I agree. I don’t think there is a pattern when it comes to woman who love anal sex. My wife’s friends are all conservative Christians. None of them would suspect my wife has gotten off almost every day for the past 35 years while having her ass plowed. More often than not, when she’s hanging out with them, she has a load of cum in her ass.
I heard someone saying that, ironically, there’s a positive correlation between being shy, modest and introvert and enjoying anal sex. But really, who knows?
Feel free to drop examples and other theories you have in this thread. I love to hear where the connotation of redhead women and cute modest girls preferring anal come from
Wow! I have a redhead friend who likes to wear tight black chokers. Perhaps, when I have opportunity, I’ll tell her about these rumours, just to see if her reaction confirms them.
I reckon it’s because goths seem to enjoy being edgy, so they’ll just come out and say it.
I’m definitely not goth. Had a small emo phase in college, but that doesn’t count. Generally I come off as the introvert brainy nerd sort that’s just a trifle eccentric. (If you’re into brain typing, I’m an INTP.) Pretty sure though, I’m universally considered the “good girl” who is straight laced and conservative. Hard to say what vibes or energy I give off, as I can’t really observe myself in third person, but I reckon I generally give off vibes between Belle (from Disney’s Beauty and the Beast) and Milo Thatch (from Disney’s Atlantis). Unless I’m with my husband, then I’m an impish little minx of a witch cackling my head off as I make his eyes roll up into his head.
Hard to pick someone’s brain from just looking at them. Like, it’s hard to tell if a coffee is going to be good or bad just by staring at it.
Usually it boils down to either finding the right circle of people or being open with whoever you found, and then ask.
I myself I’m bad at asking these kind of stuff to people since my words and cyclic personality are not helpful. Some times I have been asked about it by girls, and I usually answer in a neutral and correct manner. The most recent one was during work, where a coworker asked my opinion on letting your partner have sex with others (I told her I would agree as long as they gave advice of it).
I don’t really think there’s any specific type of woman who’s particularly obsessed with anal play.
For example, I personally can’t relate to goth culture at all. I’m neither shy nor introverted. In a way, I’m maybe the typical girl next door. I’m just a young woman who enjoys life, loves sports, and likes spending time with her friends.
I think sexual preferences and desires are too individual and varied to identify any specific pattern.
Yeah, I doubt my wife fits a “type”, unless being a wife, mother, grandmother, and retired financial analyst is commonly associated with the anal only lifestyle. She’s my anal GILF and that’s all that really matters.
