Hey there, glad I’ve found this interesting Forum.
Anal has always been a big turn on for me. I like pretty much everything about a female body, but anal is my absolute desire. I get it from time to time because my wife knows that I love it, but she’s not totally into it as I am.
I’ve recentlich enjoyed fucking myself with her dido, which made me explode like crazy. She will be out this weekend and I’m already so excited to play with myself. I’ve even ordered a really big dildo this time and want to try to just cum by fucking my horny ass.
On a free camsite I connected to a really nice girl last week and we fucked my ass together on cam, she instructed me and I was shaking even 5 minutes after the climax. unfortunately she went offline and I was never able to find her again. That so was fucking hot and of course anonymous without showing faces.
Thank you Jenna Mhm yeah I guess it is different - it gets me quickly very aroused, then it builds up when I start to hit the right spot. Problems start right there because it is hard to keep the pace up and the angle all by myself After a while when I’ve loosended up I can go really fast - like the fastest it can get and then I kinda start to see the stars, lose my mind and it feels like a more intense and very very long like orgasm. Even tho I have managed to really cum from that, I keep staying very horny afterwards mentally. The more I play anally, the hornier I get even the days after.
In order to not feel uncomfortable horny all the time I really need to cum the normal way
I share your interest in anal toys. I am a married straight man. I have used anal toys for 40+ years and have enjoyed every inch of the experience.
I wish you great enjoyment in your explorations. I could not quite be sure from what you wrote whether or not your wife knows of your anal toy interest. I hope you already have or that you will be able to talk to her about your toy interest and that she will at least be supportive if not actively involved. It would be terrific if she would like to “drive” the toy sometimes. However, my point is that if you are able to be open with her about your toy use, you will be able to enjoy it much more, without any secrecy, stress, etc., etc.
It is interesting to me – and a great thing – that many more men are discovering the pleasure of using anal toys – and that there is more understanding that men who enjoy anal stimulation are not automatically gay. Gay is about being attracted to the same sex, not about what sexual stimulation you enjoy. In my case, I am deeply attracted to women (to a fault!) and feel no attraction to men.
If you have any questions or thoughts about anal toy use by men, I would be happy to share my own experience.
Thank you for your helpful reply. Yes, she has played with toys on me before - a couple of times. She also knows that I’m totally into anal - but I guess I can’t change that she is not totally going crazy about it. She likes it from time to time, but not as frequently as I would love to.
I think it also has a lot to do with me being super sexual - I assume as most men are. It has always been like that and it did not get less now that I’m in my 30’s. I guess she just has no idea how sexdrive feels for men and I don’t want to push her too much. I’m happily married and even after 10+ years I love our sexlife - sure, life gets in the way from mo-fr but its fine.
What I have discovered lately is that I really seem to enjoy the let go - which is necessary when doing anal play. My experience with that cam session seems to run under ‘gentle femdom’, I didn’t know that I love that until now. But if my wife doesn’t get into that topic, I guess I can’t change that. It is not only the anal play and a helping hand that turns me on about it. AI analysed that I like that stuff because it is exactly the opposite of my daily grind at work - which makes total sense to me when I think about it. I can tell you more about that experience if you like to hear more… it was so hot, I cannot stop thinking about it.
I can agree 100% - how is anal supposed to be a gay thing if you don’t get aroused by men I think that there are many gay men who don’t even like anal.
If you succeed you’ll have to share tips.
Mhm yeah I guess it is different - it gets me quickly very aroused, then it builds up when I start to hit the right spot. Problems start right there because it is hard to keep the pace up and the angle all by myself 
After a while when I’ve loosended up I can go really fast - like the fastest it can get and then I kinda start to see the stars, lose my mind and it feels like a more intense and very very long like orgasm. Even tho I have managed to really cum from that, I keep staying very horny afterwards mentally. The more I play anally, the hornier I get even the days after.
I think that there are many gay men who don’t even like anal.