# Non anal only kinks you are also into? **URL:** \ **Category:** Off Topic\ **Created:** [August 17, 2024, 4:42pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200 "2024-08-17T16:42:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![DenialPrincess](https://www.analonlylife.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/d/3be4f8/32.png) [@DenialPrincess](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/DenialPrincess)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2024, 4:42pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/1 "2024-08-17T16:42:42Z")
As per the title: are you into any kinks outside of anal? What are they and do you feel they are interlinked with anal only for you? Apologies I know not everyone here considers it a kink but forgive me as I’m not sure how else to word it! Just curious whether there are any trends as I have noticed a few things but want to see what everyone says before I speculate! ---
**Author:** ![Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/user_avatar/www.analonlylife.com/backdoorlover/32/453_2.png) [@Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/Backdoorlover)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2024, 5:52pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/2 "2024-08-17T17:52:41Z")
I think some things I like count as kinks: Wearing deep cleavage. And I mean so deep it’s not possible to wear a bra. Braless life. Luckily my girlfriend’s dream was to live braless and she’s doing it. If her nipples press through, I love it even more. Thongbikini’s. Always been a fan. Finally met a woman who tried it and than gave away all her plain bikini’s. It’s all thong, tiny triangle tops or brasil bottoms now. High heels. Maybe ll men love it, but I stimulate my woman to wear them. It makes her look double as feminine, all sudden ---
**Author:** ![AbbiT05](https://www.analonlylife.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/a/a88e4f/32.png) [@AbbiT05](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/AbbiT05)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2024, 8:29pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/3 "2024-08-17T20:29:43Z")
Cum play is a kink that I love. I think its sexy and fun ---
**Author:** ![anonymous](https://www.analonlylife.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/a/8491ac/32.png) [@anonymous](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/anonymous)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2024, 9:32pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/4 "2024-08-17T21:32:20Z")
Verbal domination, humiliation, sadism, rope bondage, erotic hypnosis, consensual non-consent … oh, cmnf … I could go on 😃 ---
**Author:** ![iAmTheGunman](https://www.analonlylife.com/user_avatar/www.analonlylife.com/iamthegunman/32/11_2.png) [@iAmTheGunman](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/iAmTheGunman)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2024, 9:39pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/5 "2024-08-17T21:39:15Z")
I’d like to be dominated by her. No, I don’t like the sensation of not being able to move or being slapped, spanked, punched or whatever. I just want to be there for her whenever she wants. The only thing left is a her and be more mature (feel ready fur such responsibility). ---
**Author:** ![britbumming](https://www.analonlylife.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/b/f0a364/32.png) [@britbumming](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/britbumming)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2024, 11:17pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/6 "2024-08-17T23:17:06Z")
Spanking and sniffing panties particularly the rear of them. Uni used to sniff gfs an her flatmates ---
**Author:** ![Annie-A-O](https://www.analonlylife.com/user_avatar/www.analonlylife.com/annie-a-o/32/15_2.png) [@Annie-A-O](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/Annie-A-O)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 3:08pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/7 "2024-08-19T15:08:03Z")
Oh, this is an interesting topic! Well, aside from enjoying casual anal sex - and that can involve several kinks in itself - I do like it when I have to submit to play, and especially if it is a a little degrading (comes from a management career where I had to spend a lot of time telling my Managing Directors what to do, and wanting the opposite in private…). I have tried to venture into the BDSM world, but never met the right people - I think that I would have enjoyed it a lot - the submission and control that it, not pain and abuse. Also, as has been mentioned by somebody else, I do go bra-less nearly all the time - after a breast Doctor gave me his opinion that bras only atrophy the muscles that support breasts. Over the years, I haven’t sagged too much, and like the feeling of my breasts just being free to move. Then again, I also love being nude and doing without clothes altogether - but that’s just being me, I don’t see it as a kink… ---
**Author:** ![Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/user_avatar/www.analonlylife.com/backdoorlover/32/453_2.png) [@Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/Backdoorlover)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 3:40pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/8 "2024-08-19T15:40:32Z")
I don’t think my girlfriend sees braless life as a kink either, but as her man I do. After a lifetime being with women who mostly refused to go braless, while one didn’t even need them, it’s a breath of fresh air to now be able to grab my girlfriends braless boobs through her blouse or dress. And she loves me groping her bolbs, too. This way we kinda make it our kink. Soft kink, so you will 😁 ---
**Author:** ![anonymous](https://www.analonlylife.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/a/8491ac/32.png) [@anonymous](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/anonymous)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 4:30pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/9 "2024-08-19T16:30:38Z")
It’s a lot of work to find positive connections in the kink scene, mostly because there’s not one unified scene, but all kinds of people with different ideas of what BDSM actually is. Many come into it with trauma or hatred for the other sex, and then call their continued abuse BDSM. But there are also those who understand it as a fun and erotic practice between consenting adults. Good luck if you want to dive in again! ---
**Author:** ![Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/user_avatar/www.analonlylife.com/backdoorlover/32/453_2.png) [@Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/Backdoorlover)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 5:31pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/10 "2024-08-19T17:31:10Z")
@anonymous That first part what you wrote, that’s dangerous. Cause abuse victims often go into a submissive role once they’re treated very dominant. It like it’s programmed when they got abused and it get’s triggered. Deep inside they are dying and feeling very lost, but the victim inside them learned to shut up and take it. This is why I always have issues with BDSM. Even consentual I still see the risks. ---
**Author:** ![anonymous](https://www.analonlylife.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/a/8491ac/32.png) [@anonymous](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/anonymous)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 6:26pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/11 "2024-08-19T18:26:07Z")
If I left the impression that abuse and restaged trauma are in any way good things to do, or should fall under the umbrella of BDSM, that was not my intention. They shouldn’t. Abusers should work on bettering themselves, and those who restage their trauma in their relationships as well; both generally require professional help. There are people who CALL all the above BDSM, and often are part of BDSM scenes. When they get together, it can appear as if “the scene” (and there are really many scenes) condone all this, see this as BDSM. It’s unhealthy and dangerous, though. So yeah, sorry if I caused confusion there. I would argue there’s also healthy and good ways to practice a BDSM lifestyle; in a dominant role, I would always make sure the submissive part, for example, is actually happy with her role, didn’t feel put down by me (apart from the way they enjoy during scenes) and generally encourage good dynamics that make all involved happy. I don’t treat people in a dominant manner out of the blue, and make those my “slaves” that react to it with submission. ---
**Author:** ![Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/user_avatar/www.analonlylife.com/backdoorlover/32/453_2.png) [@Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/Backdoorlover)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2024, 7:29pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/12 "2024-08-19T19:29:09Z")
No I wasn’t adressing to you. Just meant so say that you made a valid point when saying some people who say they are BDSM don’t belong there. Once I met a girl. She openly told me her boyfriend - who was sitting in the room - took her to BDSM parties and she liked it. She told about it like she was telling me she loves doing loundry. A year later I see her in a pub, with another man. She looks radiating and happy. I say hello and almost immidiatly she tells me she broke up with the other guy because he manipulated her into doing BSDM. And since she was very empatic, she favored him while feeling like a filty whore, without wanting to feel that way. In her new relationship there was harmony and love. She trived with that man. ---
**Author:** ![pureanalslave](https://www.analonlylife.com/user_avatar/www.analonlylife.com/pureanalslave/32/41_2.png) [@pureanalslave](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/pureanalslave)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2024, 3:52pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/13 "2024-09-04T15:52:03Z")
that would be a very long list. the most kinkiest would be I’m his toilet. ---
**Author:** ![littlemissknowitall](https://www.analonlylife.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e68b1a/32.png) [@littlemissknowitall](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/littlemissknowitall)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2024, 10:40am UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/14 "2024-09-14T10:40:21Z")
I have a very strong praise kink. And face fucking - you know, the really messy, gagging, slobbery, brutal, cant breath face fucking. ---
**Author:** ![Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/user_avatar/www.analonlylife.com/backdoorlover/32/453_2.png) [@Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/Backdoorlover)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2024, 11:01am UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/15 "2024-09-14T11:01:42Z")
Praise kink meaning you love to praise the guy fucking you ? ---
**Author:** ![littlemissknowitall](https://www.analonlylife.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e68b1a/32.png) [@littlemissknowitall](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/littlemissknowitall)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2024, 11:16am UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/16 "2024-09-14T11:16:17Z")
No, i like the praise to be directed at me. ---
**Author:** ![Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/user_avatar/www.analonlylife.com/backdoorlover/32/453_2.png) [@Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/Backdoorlover)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2024, 11:34am UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/17 "2024-09-14T11:34:08Z")
Isn’t that normal female behavior ? I know not one woman who doens’t need compliments and praise to thrive. Stop complimenting a woman and she crumbles. ---
**Author:** ![littlemissknowitall](https://www.analonlylife.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/l/e68b1a/32.png) [@littlemissknowitall](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/littlemissknowitall)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2024, 12:09pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/18 "2024-09-14T12:09:53Z")
I wouldn’t say it’s exclusive to females. Human nature is to crave recognition and reward for hard work or a good job. For me its the context. ‘Praise’ for a good job at work and praise of a sexual nature or within my relationship dynamic are different things. Saying i did a good job at work invokes a completely different feeling to telling me im a good little deepthroating slut. Or maybe I’ve just been with shitty guys until now. I dont know. I just know thats my kink. ---
**Author:** ![Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/user_avatar/www.analonlylife.com/backdoorlover/32/453_2.png) [@Backdoorlover](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/Backdoorlover)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2024, 12:54pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/19 "2024-09-14T12:54:43Z")
I love telling my fiancee how good she is at deeptroat. And how amazing her asshole feels. And how good she fucks. ---
**Author:** ![anonymous](https://www.analonlylife.com/letter_avatar_proxy/v4/letter/a/8491ac/32.png) [@anonymous](https://www.analonlylife.com/u/anonymous)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2024, 1:08pm UTC](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200/20 "2024-09-15T13:08:57Z")
People with a praise kink are so much fun to play with 🙂 The way they light up at being complimented for the very filthy things they do is amazingly fun 🙂 [Next page](https://www.analonlylife.com/t/non-anal-only-kinks-you-are-also-into/200.md?page=2)