I sometimes agree that early teenagers should get sex education not only from forced lessons in schools, but also from their parents so one can mitigate these iind of situations that can be uncomfortable for both.
I’m all for appropriateness and decency, but I still think discussions of sex between friends shouldn’t be as taboo as it is. I think it’s something worth celebrating and that it needs some discussion of it if for absolutely no other reason than to ask questions and swap ideas to help everyone get better at it.
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Yes I find it helpful to discuss my fantasies and worries with my ‘friends’ because we know each other quite intimately and are in different places on our anal journeys. Frank discussions with certain people, who have a lot more experience than I, on this forum gives me so much knowledge which I often impart to my friends to enhance everyone’s anal pleasure.
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I did it once and it was liverating, but it kind of felt embarrasing that the friends I wrote to were female (I’m a man).
Certainly I took them by surprise because they didn’t expect that from the “quiet and intelligent one”, but they were chill about it.
Yes it is a dealbreaker, that’s why before starting the relationship, in the flirting phase, I have to be sure that she’s very into anal.
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My boyfriend wasn’t an anal fan initially but I got him into it. Now he’s in my ass nearly every day!
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I’m with some of the others. If your partner enjoyed anal with you then stopped, it would not make sense.
One of the several ways anal has improved our relationship is that it has helped communication and we have improved immensely over the last 10 years as a couple because of this. In our case, if one of us stopped, which is to say, deny our partner something so intimate and common, it would be out of the ordinary and would require explanation.
We are not AO but anal has brought us closer than anything else and it is inconceivable that one of us would deny the other without prior communication.
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Agree with every word. The communication and trust component makes it so much better.
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