Hello I am a French BBW anal girl. Not yet in AO but want to. Is there any other French member ?
I know it is not for meeting another people. I just want to know how you do for that ? I really want to meet someone who really loves anal and build a real romance and relashion ship.
Thanks for this forum
Welcome on the forum.
We are a few french speakers on this forum I think.
What does bbw mean ?
Thank you. Bbw is for big beautifull woman. Les femmes rondes quoi ou grosses qui nƩst pas un gros mot. Ah ah
It Will be so cool to havĆ© here a French group in French if itās possible
Welcome, and thanks for your introduction.
Itās nice to have you here, and we appreciate you sharing a bit about yourself.
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Youāre very welcome to stay, join discussions, and ask questions. If youāre wondering how others approach things or want advice, thatās exactly what this place is for.
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No, Iām not French nor I speak French, ä½ęÆęēę±čÆčÆ“å¾äøé.
Bienvenue! Je māappelle Jennanymph. Ća va?
Unfortunately Iām not a Francophone, I took French in high school to help me read Sartre and Camus, but didnāt get very far. Iāve now exhausted my knowledge.
Iām in an anal heavy distance relationship rn. I really lucked out, my partner and I didnāt discuss anal beforehand but heās been super open to it. We were together for a year before I even brought up that I liked anal, November was our first time. So I guess my thinking (sample size: 1) is that you find someone who feels like your person, and then you dramatically increase the chances that theyāll be open to anal like you are. And this forum is super supportive for building your confidence to bring it up, if youāre nervous like I was.
How did you get interested in anal?
Hi, and thanks, Jennanymph 
Actually, I find it really hard to find the right person. I donāt know if this is specific to France, but despite all the ways to communicate, no one really wants to open up and meet in person.
And itās even harder when you have kinks. Especially given how little transparency men have about their relationship status. And Iām also very particular about behavior. I canāt stand sexist behavior or a lack of empathy.
Iām speaking specifically about Franceāthe anal community revolves mostly around submissive men, and itās very hard to find a partner.
Iāve always been attracted to anal. I first enjoyed sodomy, but very quickly I was drawn to dilation. Iām more interested in working on width than depth.
Iām starting to gain some experience, and Iām here to express my love for anal play. Whatās exhausting is the reaction I get in return: either men act like cowboys and spout stupid things that reveal a lack of experience (especially regarding safety and health), or they only think about anal sex.
In the meantime, Iām still finding partners, but not the one
Thatās so frustrating, sexist guys suck! Are you trying to find partners through kink groups or dating apps? I also had a terrible time on apps and social media, so I basically just gave up on it. This is the one space online I participate, the rest I just lurk.
I met my current partner working together at a sandwich shop over the summer, my previous relationships were through school. But it sounds like those might not be options for you.
Itās pretty easy to find sexual partners, but when it comes to love, itās practically impossible, haha
Anyway, thanks so much for chatting
I am also a dilation fan !
What are the toys that bring you the more sensations ?
Thatās what excites me the most about anal sex and what really sparks my imagination, I think.
In fact, Iām starting to build up a nice collection. Iām really passionate about plugs. I love the feeling of being full and at the same time feeling open. I have a glass one that I really like: itās slightly rounded in shape, 5.5 cm wide, and most importantly, it has a 3 cm base that keeps the opening open.
I also love the sensation of vibrating plugs to kick off a session. Right now, Iām really eager to try an anal pump. I find a puffy anus very aesthetically pleasing. I have one with three plug attachments that I havenāt tried yet.
But itās on the agenda as soon as I get back.
I also have some bulkier plugs I canāt wait to test, including a screw-shaped one that goes up to 7 cm. But I need to work my way up to that. Iām also really interested in anything tunnel-shaped, and I love anal beads and rounded shapes.
What about you? Any favorite toys ?
Oh, I almost forgot about the sensations! I love the texture and the varying degrees of texture, too. I have a plug thatās up to 6 cm wide and shaped like a bunch of grapes, with all those little beads on it.
I really love feeling the rounded shapes because Iām more interested in the sensation of width. And above all, I find it more pleasurable.
I also really like slightly odd shapes, like alien-style dildo plugs. They let you experience different diameters and really feel the progression.
Iām very curious about the egg-laying dildo. I donāt have one, and Iāll admit Iām afraid an egg might get stuck, ha ha.
One of my partners and I have also planned to try out a speculum. Iāve already worn a tunnel plug and I have two of them. I have to say that I like feeling exposed anally and scrutinized, so the speculum naturally appeals to me. And the idea that the other person opens me up and can scrutinize my open hole really turns me on.
Thatās why my goal this year is to deepen my anal passion and, above all, to gradually move toward AO.
I happen to stumble onto an anal loving woman. Cause honestly I would never have known how to track someone like her down.
So I live in Belgium and I assume itās just as hard here. For most men and/or women anal sex is seen as an extra to spice up things, or valentineās dar, birthdays. You know, special occasions.
While I lnew I wanted anal sex to be a regular part of our sexlife, not something I needed to ask for every time and get a no 8/10 times.
So I could never advise anyone how to find an anal only partner. It just happened to me. Doesnāt make it any less thrilling to have her, though.
Hey !
Very interesting. I would love to use such a glass plug to keep you so open all the time. I personnaly use 3 toys. First is the Hitch from Doc Johnson. A 5cm plug that is perfect for the day to day. Then, I directly went for huge toys after training myself with zuchinis. I bought the Deep space 90 and the gape keeper 93 from Topped Toys. I have to warm up during a bit of time to be able to take one of them but the sensations are just huge. I can also fist myself after I inserted one or the other. I am in love with extreme anal dilation 
As I said, finding the right person is incredibly difficult. Kinks only make it harder.
And the challenges we face vary depending on our gender and sexual orientation.
I stopped vanilla dating because I canāt imagine living without my kinks. In 2026, a woman who knows what she wants and doesnāt want, who asserts her desires and owns them, is still not understood.
I should write a post about how men approach women who enjoy anal sex or simply express their desires openly.
And this isnāt just about a few guys. 99% of the messages I get are off-putting and disrespectful.
This post is more of an exploration of womenās experiences. Because unfortunately, the conversation around anal sex is still mostly dominated by men, and I donāt think that does anyone any good, haha
You seem to be further along than I am, and your toys look exquisite. I find that people with penis seem to have a greater capacity for openness.
Is that because theyāre more widely represented, or is it something to do with their anatomy? Itās really a question Iāve been asking myself.
I really love my toys !
From my experience and discussions with different people, I have noticed that it really depends on the person itself. A person that is tall and large can have difficulties increasing the size while a much smaller person might increase very fast. I have heard once that men had a bone that limit extreme anal dilation while woman not but I did not do proper researches on that topic.
For me, what helped is the passion and that I trained almost everyday for months 2 years ago
I mean on average men are bigger than women, so that might play a role. But I think when it comes to anus size, theyāre about the same. I do feel like men tend to be more competitive than women, so maybe theyāll try to push their limits more readily? But ultimately I would think success in anal would really vary from person to person more so than sex to sex.
Yes, Iāve wondered whether itās an anatomical issue or what you describe so well as a competitive spirit.
I think most of them tend not to understand the importance of boundaries.
The way they always boast proudly about having no limits, or the more subtle way of saying they have no limits other than those of their partner. While their goal will be to push their partnerās limits, ha ha.
That said, I find it more impressive in terms of openness and toys.
Even though there are many women who achieve very high-quality performances.
But maybe itās also a visual effect and a resurgence of heteronormativity regarding penetration.
I just watched Louis Therouxās documentary Inside the Manosphere. Too many guys want to be āalpha malesā which in turn means treating girls like shit. I generally stay away from āalphaholeā stories, but itās a whole dark romance lit subgenre too. Like you said, if thereās respect for boundaries weāre good. But it just feels like a lot of guys say one thing but then do the other.