Sorry I didn’t get back to you sooner.
There are a lot of dodgy people professing to be Tantra Master’s or Practitioner’s” that are out there.
I don’t know where you live Colt1911 but I just Googled “Tantric Practitioners near me or in Australia” which is where I live. You could do the same wherever in whatever country you live in. To sort the wheat from the chaff so-to-speak, is to have a talk/chat wish the administrators that run the Tantric Course/Retreat. I would ask them for phone numbers of couples that have attended the course, retreat, to quiz, ask them how they found the course, how it is run, and most importantly - how it has changed them in their relationship. I mean, that is what we did. That’s how we gained trust that this was for us. Trust that you find one.
Respectfully, I think the situation here is comparable to a young man being worried about his car stalling during his first driving lesson.
Telling him how to diagnose and remedy stalling cars would be topical, but I think reassuring him that having a car stall during his first driving lesson is nothing to worry about is more important than giving him advice on how to take care of an engine.
I’m worried @iAmTheGunman 's takeaway from this thread will be that he needs to take a tantra course before he should become intimate with a woman. But at this point, he knows nothing of his stamina at all, and even less of his future partner. So it’s an understandable worry, but not one, I think, that requires any action. He’ll be fine with his future partner, and together, they’ll discover what they need and want.
My two cents.
Any problems that may or may not arise are best solved together with the person he ends up dating eventually.
Quite right. It’s not a solo journey. Facing and solving problems together is a part of relationship building. Beyond the mutual attraction and even the bonds of love forming working together is just as important if the relationship is to last, speaking from my own experience.
This thread has raised some thoughts. My partner always wants to have things finished in an hour, whereas I would love 2 hour sessions and even all day but I’m getting a perspective that never occurred to me before; from her point of view. I do recall the times where I have lost control and cum “too soon” (according to whose definition?) and she has seemed quite pleased.