So that I won’t “hijack” the thread in which Colt1911 posted, by responding to his post there, I have started a new thread starting with Colt1911’s post:
Colt1911… Is there any chance that the picture you saw was of John Holmes deep in the ass of beautiful brunette woman?
That picture sure got my attention somewhere between the age of 18 and 22. (I think it was a Swedish Erotica “magazine” – a porn camera session produced in “magazine” form). I can still see that picture in my mind’s eye – there must be a “diagnosis code” for my type of memory.
The mere concept of a “porn magazine” now seems so quaint!
And speaking of super 8 films in college, the university I attended (for a little while at least), one of the Big 10, had several competing “film clubs” that showed multiple films per week – with official permission, in university lecture halls!!! While they showed the usual “real” films, their real money-makers were such as Behind the Green Door, Deep Throat, The Opening of Misty Beethoven, and the like. (I think that “Misty” also had a big influence in the development of my anal fixation – or at least helped it along.)
Can you imagine films like those being shown, with official permission, on a university campus today?
Oh, the “goode olde days”, how I miss some aspects of those times.
I don’t recall that image but he had Swedish Erotica and Color Climax magazines, and I was always drawn to the anal scenes. There was far less anal depicted in 60’s and 70’s porn.
it was a great time for sure. The richest period of pure rock music in history, the drugs generally didn’t kill you, and a shot of penicillin cured the STD’s of the day. Thank God I got married as I doubt I’d have made it to 30.
I certainly agree on the music. I subscribe to YouTube Premium and using it I have built a very large quantity of playlists of great (almost all rock) music. [Yes, I know that all my selection efforts / playlists will vanish if YouTube stops offering that service.] I limit my selections to music which I wish could be implanted in my brain. It is hard to explain, since I have no musical creation or playing or singing talent, but I know what I like and it is part of my soul.
For me, the right musical “vibrations” (to use a 60s word) are on the order of the “mechanical resonance” that caused the famous 1940 destruction of the original Tacoma Narrows Bridge. Always a good video to understand the power of nature and the consequences of engineering errors.
However, I have one great musical regret. I seem to be unable to achieve complete sexual, even anal, concentration (thus satisfaction), if there is any music playing. If there is music happening, a significant amount of my brain, concentration, etc., goes to the music instead of the sexual activity. That is regrettable because, for me, nothing could be better than combining the two activities into even greater bliss.
This morning I was listening to a song – that could be applied to anal desire – which has been in my head for the last month. I will post it in the Off Topic category.
If I take the title of this topic as the subject, my first emotional contact with anal wasn’t through images, it was through words.
I found a book hidden in my mums nightstand. “The sexual active woman”, which was funny to discover cause my mum was the architype of the housewife who just did one position. I even doubt she did blowjobs.
Anyway, I was 15 and read the whole book. It was written in the 70s and focussed on the fact that women were allowed to be sexually active.
There were several chapters ald one was anal sex. Pro’s and con’s were honestly mentioned, but never with any judgement. And then there was this part of a doctor who had ask a few couples to engage in anal sex and share their experience.
All couples said it started off feeling weird, but as they did it more often it became more appealing and only one couple decided it was not for them. The others were going to integrate anal sex into their future sexlife.
As a 15 year old, I remember how fascinated I felt about the idea of assfucking a girl and hoped really hard I would once be able to do this.
I agree with you about the internet, but for me it’s more about social media than porn. Honestly the first time I came across anal was friends joking about it, then sort of joking but being serious encouraging me to try it with my boyfriend at the time. It was 2020 and the pandemic had started and we were all bored. As I’ve written many times before, my first time was a disaster, but made me want to “do it right”. So I started searching TikTok and other platforms for advice. A lot of it was aimed at gay guys, but it was still really helpful. It also helped to normalize it for me, like there are a whole bunch of people having anal sex and asking questions, not just me.
I don’t need nor want the rest of the world to see anal sex as normal. I like it that we, the anal only couples, are the exception.
Being an anal only couple adds a lot of value to our relationship for me. That added value wouldn’t have been the case if my previous wives were also doing anal only. Wanting to be anal only, lifted my wife up to an unknown level of attraction. I have the highest admiration ever for her. That’s the power of a woman willingly giving up pussy sex.
My father had a collection of Playboy magazines; the photos were all of nude models, but there was an edition with erotic stories. In one of them, the guy was sitting in an armchair while the virgin girl tried to sit on him, facing away, supporting herself on the armrests while slowly lowering her ass onto his cock. The guy slid his arms between her body and her wrists and, with a sharp movement, freed both of her arms from the armrests; she fell down on him and screamed, her ass receiving his entire cock all at once. I was 11 or 12 years old when I first read this; I had never read anything so erotic in my life, and the image of them connected in that way kept coming back to my mind for years.
When I was 13, I read Germinal by Émile Zola, and there’s a passage where a character comments on her slut neighbor who lived with her husband and her lover in the same room, “sleeping with both her men, one underneath and the other on top”. At the same time? Would that be possible? I remember reading the passage several times to understand it correctly.
At 16, I had already watched a few porn films when I saw an anal sex scene for the first time. It was Angelica Bella in The Fisherman’s Wife; I was so shocked, so aroused, and so fascinated! I was hypnotized. To me, it was like the pinnacle of eroticism, the most erotic thing a couple could do.
TikTok contains multitudes! There’s a lot of low effort influencers and slop, but there’s a lot of really good content too. You just need to get your fyp right
The growth of acceptance toward anal makes me happy as an anal only woman. It’ll take a lot of time for a lot of people to process with lots of curiosity and learning correct information about anal-related stuffs that they never learn about. Journey, trust, communication, sharing thoughts and comments without judgements and shame, and spreading the anal positivity is what’s very important!