My first ATM was not a clean one but I was inexperienced and wanted to please him. Although I didn’t like dirty ATM it actually took the fear of ATM away. Nowadays a little bit of poo is no big deal, particularly if its not mine!
Personally think ATM will always be an exception. It’s a big taboo, especially mentally. That is the biggest hurdle imo. granted if you do anal regularly you probably have a routine down and trust yourself more. But even then, I’d only do it with someone I really care about.
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I wouldn’t do any sex with anyone I don’t know or trust. The 3 men I do ATM with I know well, trust and care for. Dale is the only man who has my heart but Cory and Lee provide a lot of sexual fun and satisfaction. As I said before, my first experience of ATM was not pleasant. I’m more experienced these days and it wouldn’t phase me when it happens again.
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We had been having anal sex for a long time before I worked up the nerve to tell my wife that I wanted to try ATM (ass-to-mouth). She had actually performed oral sex on me several times after anal sex, during which I would sometimes suffer a premature orgasm or lose my erection for some other reason. When I finally asked her about trying ATM, she agreed with a casual “sure.” What surprised me was that the first time she did it (and every time since), she never even paused, seamlessly transitioning from anal sex to oral sex. In a short period of time, ATM became as much of a turn-on for her as it is for me. Amazingly, prior to trying ATM, she was not particularly skilled at oral sex. However, after we started practicing ATM, she became incredibly skilled at oral sex. That being said, we both prefer to finish with anal sex. Nevertheless, she always cleans my penis with her mouth afterwards. It’s just become our thing, and it brings us a great deal of intimacy.
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Cate was a bit tentative & nervous as she didn’t want to taste butthole stuff. I reassured her but she did feel some pressure, which I didn’t know at the time, that plenty of girls that I had seen in amateur porn doing ATM. I took the lead and had put my finger in her ass, and buried it deep, pulled it out and I sucked my finger that had been in her ass. I said that it didn’t taste of much & safe. I redid it again showed her it was safe and ok to do. So it was a gradual thing for the both of us.
She was surprised when she tried it as it didn’t smell or taste like anything. Now she loves doing it and reckons it’s hot. Sometimes requesting to do ATM.
I think it is special & so magical for all involved, especially when you love each other. Extra bonding.
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Yes true. I remember seeing ass tot mouth porn the first time. It grossed me out.
Then I saw it some more and something changed inside. It felt intimate and an ultimate form of sex. The idea a woman uses her two holes, who evolutionary aren’t even created for sex, to pleasure a man became the ultimate dream for me.
I asked my two exes if they would consider it. I got a no, even before my question was fully asked.
So when the anal sex with my girlfriend was so much better and more intense then anything I’d experienced before her, I knew I needed to gather my nerve and ask her if she would consider doing ass to mouth.
When she happily said she wanted to try it. I felt all fuzzy inside. And when she actually did it, it was the best feeling ever. My intense reaction to her first ass to mouth, without a doubt, is the reason why she loves doing it eversince.
That being said. I do think that her preference for being assfucked over pussyfucked is what made her decide ass to mouth adds nothing but good vibes to our sexlife.
And whatever happens, I know I will never take the fact she does ATM for granted. I will forever be gratefull for every time, no matter how brief, she sucks or licks my cock when I pull it out of her asshole.
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Dale has said on more than one occasion that her finds ATM one of our most intimate activities. He also said that he finds it uber sexy when he sees me giving oral pleasure to Cory, Lee and now Karl after they have been in my ass. We both find it hot when I’ve tasted cocks that have been in the ass of the other girls.
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I reckon it is good Abby that you’ve found your tribe. Blessings all round & good for your well being 
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Thank you. We have found likeminded people who we trust intimately and love. Personally I’ve experienced sensations and pleasure that Dale and I couldn’t have achieved without our friends. We have all learned so much about what is possible. My mental and physical health is so much better since we established our symbiotic relationship.
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What you just shared Abby, you can have all the money in the world, but without what you have just described, is a shallow life lived. Love and all the feelings associated with love and happiness, is the highest vibration known to man.
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I think I have a somewhat naive approach to anal sex. 
I’m definitely not inexperienced, as I realize from chatting and reading the forum, but on the other hand, I feel like I don’t know important things.
My ass-to-mouth practice is a good example. I’ve been doing ass-to-mouth naturally and without thinking since my first anal experience 6 years ago. I don’t find it any stranger than pussy-to-mouth.
Miscellaneous accidents don’t bother me; for me, they’re part of the fun, even part of the fun. For more serious accidents, I always have wet wipes nearby. I should also point out that I consciously clean my asshole in the shower when I feel a good fuck coming on, even if I don’t use any special kit.
In short, I think I love doing ass-to-mouth , but I’m careful to avoid “accidents.”
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Everyone who engages in anal sex understands what comes out of that beautiful chocolate starfish. Before my wife perfected her anal prep, we would have dirty encounters.
My wife, as is the case with many women, is self-conscious about being as clean as possible during anal. It’s important for the male anal partners not to make a big deal when a little poo is encountered. It’s expected when you’re deep inside her asshole.
I don’t seek it during anal but it doesn’t bother me when some smears on my cock. In fact, it reminds me what we’re doing and it turns me on if a little discoloration drips down her legs during doggy anal penetration. That hasn’t happened for 2 or 3 years.
Ironically, we’ve done spontaneous anal with no prep over the years. I’ve never encountered poo during one of these impromptu anal sessions.
I’ve read that porn stars prep for days prior to anal sessions to make sure they’re clean for the scene. This includes fasting for days, followed by an extensive flush of the lower colon… much deeper than an enema limited to cleansing the rectum. So unnecessary, as all of us anal enthusiasts understand.
Most of us understand that we will eventually encounter a little “dirt” when we play in the dirt box. We also understand it won’t prevent us from enjoying the most erotic and fulfilling sex act on earth.
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agree, the “accidents” are part of the fun.
we barely do clean up, so it shouldn’t be called “accidents” to us. eating a brown cock/dildo makes me even more horny, thinking how dirty I am.
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Loving ATM is one of the best reasons to do it!
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If I have unplanned anal sex, the chance that I might not be spotless is quite high. I accept that as part of enjoying anal sex and sometimes being spontaneous makes it all the more fun. At times when we are with our friends, they have not always preped well either and a cock has come out of an ass with some poo on it. I don’t make a big deal and I’m still happy to take it in my mouth without passing comment. My buddy Tiff has left herself unclean on purpose because she is a git lol. At the end of the day I don’t want to be the one to break the flow or ruin the enjoyment, asking for someone to clean their cock before I take it in my mouth.
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I love clean dirty cock/pussy/ass/dildos//fingers/feet/faces/boobs/… covered by cum/spit/vomit/piss/shit/…
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Funny enough even with my AO partners in the past, they weren’t really the biggest fans of atm though they would do that from time to time, especially if we were being a bit more wild. That said, personally I always preferred buring myself in, cumming as deep as possible, then pulling out and having them clean me up after. Again, that wasn’t really common, but more of when we were having a “primal” session 
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For me ATM is a standard part of my sex and love making. I’ve always regarded receiving cum in my mouth as a reward and I enjoy the pleasure. I don’t enjoy cum in my ass. Felching is something that I’ve enjoyed but is not a regular occurrence with my friends
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I’m already learning, felching is not a term that I was familiar with. Sometimes, I give my toy a little lick after I pull it out. It’s mostly psychological, but it makes me feel a little naughty and I swear that makes the orgasm better when I finally get there.
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I have sucked cum out of the ass of my friends. Obviously I was invited to do so because they know I enjoy cum! It adds a little bit of variety!
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