Hey everyone! I’m so happy we have this new forum now, as soon as I found out about this site I signed up immediately.
Are there any other lesbians/wlws/queers who are interested in the anal only lifestyle? I’m a lesbian who exclusively has anal penetrative sex, but it’s been hard finding other people who have similar experiences. Especially when it comes to navigating vaginal/clitoral denial, I feel like especially with lesbian sex, the focus is mostly on the clit lol. Anyone out there?
I got to know one half of a lesbian couple years ago who were anal only. So there probably are some out there (I got to know her on the internet, and not very well, and you know what they say about the internet).
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Oh, and a heartfelt welcome to the forum!
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Yes omg, I’m in a lesbian relationship and we are both AO! We exist!
Also welcome!
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Hi, yes, I certainly count myself on the queer spectrum and am amazed at how far it has grown over my lifetime - I was born in a time when it was illegal for men to be openly gay and women were only able to take out bank accounts or loans in their husband or father’s name or have any real freedom. I did find the love of my life many years ago, and we were an openly lesbian couple, until she passed away far too soon. I do define myself as a woman who loves only women - but have decided never to take on another relationship. However, and it’s a little hard to explain, I do love (adore!) anal penetration, and have no problem having casual (sex-based only, and also anal-only) pastimes with men. I don’t want a relationship with a man, but I do like cocks - if only cocks grew on women then I’d be a very happy little bunny (sigh…!!!). That’s why I came on here, to try to understand myself and my unusual attractions…
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Life is too short not to engage in what makes you happy. Like you, I’ve lived through massive societal changes. Even access to information about anal sex is helping people discover the lifestyle. I learned about anal by looking at my dad’s porn magazines.
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Thank you! I’m astounded by how fast it seems to be growing
Oh yay!! Wow, both of you? For me, I’m deffos the AO one, I think my girlfriend likes it because it’s kinky but we’re both switches so when I’m topping them, it’s not AO on their part lol.
Hi, wow, thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry about your loss.
I definitely know other women who are (romantically) only interested in women but can feel sexual attraction to men (or dicks, at least haha). I love hearing about other people’s experiences.
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Welcome. I heard (or read actually) a few times about lesbians having a man on the side to assfuck them from time to time. And is a way it makes sense.
When it comes to my post:
“Hi and welcome to our forum. This isn’t a dating site.”
When it comes to her post:
“Oh, and a heartfelt welcome to the forum!”
Be more objective guys. I know you guys (moderators) are searching 
analonlydyke is looking for wlw to share and exchange experiences with, as to the stated nature of this forum.
You were explicitly asking to “connect” with partners in your area, which we explicitly state in the rules is not the goal of this forum.
There’s a difference in approach and intent here.
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Of course.
Nice Interpretation…
Its not personal, I see the same pattern in every aspect of life.
When it comes to me, Im being treated different than I go with my GF.
It think thats more psychological.
Well, then take a look at intro’s of other men who state they are looking for someone. They all get the same approach. So sorry, but you’re not special. You’re treated like we treat every newcommer we suspect is here to chat up women.
There is nothing wrong in us keeping this forum women friendly.
@doyeki75 welcome to the group. As @aNewFrivolity pointed out @analonlydyke was interested in learning if there were other anal only lesbians in our group.
No need for hard feelings in us pointing out this isn’t a hookup site. The group enjoys discussion of all things anal, as well as helping others new to anal play and sex.
We look forward to you sharing your experiences and advice for those looking for help and advice. As @Backdoorlover pointed out, moderators and members will let all new members quickly know this is not a dating site.
The mods welcomed me to the forum because I was explicitly asking to share experiences with people who are in a similar situation as me - which is the purpose of this forum. I’m not interested in meeting up with people, nor did I state that I wanted to meet up with people or connect on any other level than an exchange of information or experiences.
As a lesbian, it’s incredibly hard to find online spaces where we are not fetishized by men, especially in kink spaces (I know, whether the AO lifestyle counts as a kink is up for debate but I’m including for me personally), and as @Backdoorlover pointed out, the mods want to keep this forum women friendly, which it cannot be if newcomers aren’t reminded of the rules, lest this forum ends up overrun with bots and spam the way the old forum unfortunately was.