Any other lesbians/wlws who are interested in aol?

Hey everyone! I’m so happy we have this new forum now, as soon as I found out about this site I signed up immediately.
Are there any other lesbians/wlws/queers who are interested in the anal only lifestyle? I’m a lesbian who exclusively has anal penetrative sex, but it’s been hard finding other people who have similar experiences. Especially when it comes to navigating vaginal/clitoral denial, I feel like especially with lesbian sex, the focus is mostly on the clit lol. Anyone out there?

I got to know one half of a lesbian couple years ago who were anal only. So there probably are some out there (I got to know her on the internet, and not very well, and you know what they say about the internet).

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Oh, and a heartfelt welcome to the forum!

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Yes omg, I’m in a lesbian relationship and we are both AO! We exist!
Also welcome!

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Hi, yes, I certainly count myself on the queer spectrum and am amazed at how far it has grown over my lifetime - I was born in a time when it was illegal for men to be openly gay and women were only able to take out bank accounts or loans in their husband or father’s name or have any real freedom. I did find the love of my life many years ago, and we were an openly lesbian couple, until she passed away far too soon. I do define myself as a woman who loves only women - but have decided never to take on another relationship. However, and it’s a little hard to explain, I do love (adore!) anal penetration, and have no problem having casual (sex-based only, and also anal-only) pastimes with men. I don’t want a relationship with a man, but I do like cocks - if only cocks grew on women then I’d be a very happy little bunny (sigh…!!!). That’s why I came on here, to try to understand myself and my unusual attractions…

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Life is too short not to engage in what makes you happy. Like you, I’ve lived through massive societal changes. Even access to information about anal sex is helping people discover the lifestyle. I learned about anal by looking at my dad’s porn magazines.

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Thank you! I’m astounded by how fast it seems to be growing

Oh yay!! Wow, both of you? For me, I’m deffos the AO one, I think my girlfriend likes it because it’s kinky but we’re both switches so when I’m topping them, it’s not AO on their part lol.

Hi, wow, thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry about your loss.
I definitely know other women who are (romantically) only interested in women but can feel sexual attraction to men (or dicks, at least haha). I love hearing about other people’s experiences.

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Welcome. I heard (or read actually) a few times about lesbians having a man on the side to assfuck them from time to time. And is a way it makes sense.